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.... Are we One or Two .. Two in One .. all One ..
Is it all just an illusion ...what is real reality ... What do you see ...?
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How easily - with just a photo - without any explanations -one can be manipulated - tricked ...
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And most of the times people like reality as long as it is convenient isn't it?
When it comes to the real truth things often look very differently ...
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And I see what you don't see ..
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And everybody has his own reality.
And when you realise that sb. lives in his own - parallel reality - world - I learned already as a child - better save your energy and time trying to convince sb. ... who even believes their own lies..!
Very unhealthy situations - toxic persons with diseases..
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But may be it is f.e. 'just' a personality who always needs/wants to be right.
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Because there are 4 different types of personalities ... Most of the times a mixture of - see - may be - where you find yourself .. if you like ..and each one needs a different kind of treatment ..to feel well - accepted ..etc. ..
- Sales Management - teaches us - when you know that - it already makes many things much easier - I learned -already more than 40 years ago.
1. There is the one that always wants to win -
2. The one that wants to stay in his comfort zone -
3. The one that wants to be loved -
4. The one that always needs/wants to be right -
And no matter what this person says - who always wants to be right - you do good to first just say - yes - I think you are right ..when I see it from your angle - especially in sales/conflict situations - if sb. is unsatisfied -
I just experienced that again just some days ago in a sales situation... that was getting really ugly .. and I was the client..and I was really right - confirmed at the end from the boss of this sales person I fortunately know - but she didn't know that.
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I just thought this picture is a very good example to show some different perspectives - points of view - one can surely have - and to think about ..
and may be interesting for some .. too ..
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And before you judge too quickly ..
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There is an old shamanic saying ..
"Before you judge a person/situation - make sure - you have walked minimum one mile in their shoes."
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And another one
Before you judge another person - make sure that you are perfect.
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And the bible already says :
Why do you see the splitter in the eye of your brother/sister - and your bar in your eye you don't see..
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And - how can we meet your needs? What do you need to feel well in a situation - seen - loved and respected?.